Well of course you do!
Maybe you're just not aware of what you say by it… And that's something we are about to change!
"So what is this body language exactly?"
Ah, I'm glad you asked…
Ever thought about the way you walk and talk? What about the way you sit? Does it matter and what does it say about you? About your mood? About your attitude? Your personality or your culture?
Our body gestures, facial expressions, postures and even the distance we keep from others, when tied up together, create a rich layer of mostly subconscious communication called body language.
It's your most natural and effective way of communicating in face to face interactions. "It's not what you say, but how you say it" (with your body).
The good news is that you already know it, but you run mostly on auto-pilot.
But if you allow me to give you a second glance at things, manually this time, to take the ordinary and look at it closer - you will start to see things differently. You will learn to recognize non verbal cues and patterns in human behavior and ultimately - to learn and understand others better… you won't merely look, but perceive.
So I invite you to put your detective hat on and open your mind and your eyes to view our social world from a new perspective. We will also sharpen your intuition and critical thinking; after all, I don't want you to take MY word blindly, but mostly to provide you the right tools and healthy tips to study body language in your own way.
I believe that it definitely does, first of all because it's fascinating, we're social animals with social norms and many built-in "roles" we never truly think about. Taking a new view with a critical eye on why things the way they are can really change the way you see others and yourself.
My purpose on this site is to help you connect to your intuition and let it guide you to understand the subtext of what you hear and see. Moreover, with practice and determination, to give you more control over your own actions and non verbal signals.
And when I talk about control, the way I see it, it's not about tricks or manipulations (although there are many), but about feeling comfortable in your own shoes because you know what you say with your body. Yes, there are bad habits it's better to get rid of, and you may train yourself to communicate better, but I'm not here to suggest makeovers! You'll be the judge of what fits and what not…
If you're interested in an improvement in your interpersonal relationships or simply a way to understand others better - you've come to the right place. Welcome (:
Now, are you ready to take the first step in this journey of exploration?